Public Speaking – Instructional Books, Tapes, DVDs and Big Empty Promises
Can you imagine Bill’s surprise when his Super Duper Magical Public Speaking in a Box program told him “walk out to the podium with confidence!”… No! Really? Bill already knew that he needed to walk to the podium with confidence- what he hoped to learn was how to do that. Confidence is not something that is easily faked and for Bill, who was scared to death of public speaking, this was no easy task. The program that he paid a hefty sum for told him all of the things that he already knew he should do and did nothing to help him do it.
Bill’s complaint to the marketer of that product was met with discouragement. Bill was essentially told that if the program did not work for him, then he was likely not cut out for public speaking.
Was it true? I don’t think so. But I know something that the floggers of ‘public speaker wares’ will not tell you. Public speaking skill is one of those things we all have to learn by doing it.
Consider this for a moment: Would you earn a black belt in the martial art of your choice by watching DVDs? Would you purchase a series of cassette tapes to learn to ride a motorcycle? Would you trust a carpenter whose highest credential was that he had read a book on home renovations? You get the point. Doing kind-of-skill requires doing kind-of-learning.
Effective, dynamic, engaging public speaking ability can be acquired by anyone but we all have to learn to do it the way that the effective, dynamic and engaging public speakers did. If we have challenges to overcome, we will have to overcome them like accomplished speakers did (and you can believe that many of them did)
If time is not an issue for you and you are looking at public speaking as a bit of a hobby, you can do several things:
1) Study speakers that you enjoy listening to (comedians, talk show hosts, news broadcasters) and analyze how they speak, how they time their delivery, how they deliver a punch line, how they pace themselves. As you pick out things that they do, make an effort to imitate their techniques when you speak in groups of friends, in board meetings etc;
2) Seek out and take every opportunity to speak;
3) Analyze your own public speaking. Decide what you can improve on and make a plan to make changes the next time you speak.
4) Don’t get hung up on not being an expert speaker. Chances are, nobody is expecting you to be.
5) Once you have gained some confidence, if you have a chance to video tape yourself speaking in front of a group or audience, do it! You will learn allot from watching yourself from the audience members perspective.
If you do not have the luxury of taking your time and view public speaking skills as something you need as soon as possible, you will do well to invest in attending public speaking workshops with an experienced professional who can offer you guidance based upon your needs and abilities.
Be cautious of “workshops” that are in reality a sales pitch for tapes, DVDs or books. Workshops should be just that. They should provide guidance and instruction while providing you with hands on experience. I have heard stories of disappointment from many people who attended sessions which were conducted under a well known name and after these people had paid significant sums of money to attend, they learned very little other than the secret to their success was in the program they were given the privilege and special opportunity to purchase.
Workshops and seminars that have too many participants might suggest that there is greater focus on maximizing fees instead of on really helping individuals to become better public speakers. Look for workshops that limit participants to a reasonable number based on the focus of the sessions. In general, and depending on the purpose of the workshop, 10 to 15 would be the ideal maximum. Smaller groups ensure that the workshops focus is on working with you to maximize your progress.
Anyone can be a great public speaker with a little effective guidance and regular opportunity to develop public speaking skills. If your Super Duper Magical Public Speaking in a Box program failed to make you the greatest public speaker in the universe take this to heart: It is a crummy instructor who blames his student.
La Velle Goodwin is a former professional level member of the Canadian Association of Professional Speakers. She is an effective educator who focuses 20+ years of public speaking, entertainment, teaching and training experience into public speaker coaching and training.
With her unique style and quick wit, La Velle assists aspiring public speakers tap into their strengths and become confident presenters and experienced speakers to become truly great! By targeting specific areas, working with individual learning styles and tailoring workshops specifically for the individual participants, Goodwin skillfully guides even the most nervous and awkward to levels of ability that seemed impossible for them at the start.
“Anyone can be a really great public speaker… you just have to find the on switch”
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